Incest

Sexual relations with a person within the immediate family usually a child.¹
It is a form of sexual abuse.
However, this definition of incest needs to be expanded to take into consideration betrayal of trust and the power imbalance that may exist in childrens relationships.
One such definition is: "the imposition of sexually inappropriate acts, or acts with sexual overtones ... by one or more persons who derive authority through ongoing emotional bonding with that child."²
This definition of incest will therefore include as perpetrators: immediate/extended family members, babysitters, school teachers, scout masters, priests/ministers, etc.

Factors involved may be:

• Need to obey and trust adults
• Wish to maintain family unity
• Father's need for sexual outlet when mother is not available together with daughters need for love and care
• Abuse of alcohol
• Mother may be depressed and herself suffered childhood sexual abuse
• Child may take on adult jobs including housekeeping
• Family may appear close and have little outside contact

Incidence

In a recent study from Scandinavia:³

• Girls were victims in 85% of the cases, boys in 12%, and boys as well as girls in 3%
• Sexual penetration had occurred in 54.5% of cases and the total proportion of hands-on crimes was 83%
• Most perpetrators, 72%, were well known to the child
• The most severe offenses took place within the family

A wide range of acts were classified as sexual child abuse, but most common was sexual penetration of a female child by her biological father or a family friend.

• In one third of cases victim <6 years old
• One third 6-12 years old
• The remaining third 12-18 years old

The offender is reported as male in 97% of cases but female involvement may be under reported.
Brother-sister incest is thought to be the most frequently occurring form but abuse of daughters by fathers or stepfathers is most commonly reported.⁴
Abuse by stepfathers is up to five times higher than that by biological fathers.
Physical symptoms may include:

• Vaginal pain
• Rectal pain
• Vaginal discharge
• Bleeding
• Chronic dysuria
• Bed wetting
• Constipation

That incest is usually repeated, often continuing for years, is supported by modern research.
As the daughter reaches an age when she is able to resist or flee, the activity may be repeated with a younger sister.
Though the profiles of incestuous families may vary, the father-perpetrator is typically an immature individual with low self esteem, while the wife-mother is depressed, helpless, or otherwise emotionally absent.⁵
The father often uses alcohol to allay his inhibitions before molesting his daughters.
Theories have proposed that girls allow the sexual relationship to continue to prevent family disunity.⁶
Psychological symptoms include:

• Deliberate self harm
• Nightmares
• Sleep disorders
• Aggressive behaviour
• Withdrawal
• Post traumatic stress disorder
• Poor concentration
• Poor performance at school
• Depression
• Phobias
• Eating disorders
• Precocious sexual behaviour with peers

The increase in the divorce rates may have placed more children at risk than previously.
When women begin new relationships, they may unwittingly be putting their children at greater risk for sexual abuse from the men they date.
According to one survey, if the mother remarries the "stepdaughters are over eight times more at risk of sexual abuse by the stepfathers who reared them than are daughters reared by their biological fathers".⁷"As some researchers have begun to suspect, it may be the case that a growing number of stepfathers are really 'smart paedophiles', men who marry divorced or single women with families as a way of getting close to children".⁸

Forensic examination by a paediatrician experienced in the area of child abuse.

There should be local guidelines.

Perhaps the first report of father-daughter incest appears in the Bible in the book of Genesis 19. The seducer this time, however, is not the father, Lot, whose wife was transformed into a pillar of salt, but his two daughters, who conspire to become pregnant by him. Both liaisons result in pregnancies. "And the older one gave birth to a boy, and she named him Moab, he is the father of the Moabites of this day. And the younger also gave birth to a boy, and she named him Ben Ami, he is the father of the Ammonites of this day".
(Genesis 19, 37-38)