im now reconsidering

1. Guest 22 February 2008 at 23:22PM
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   hi i am 31 and have 3 children 9 ,7 and 2 the eldest has adhd and the youngests dad doesnt want to know him so there is no way i want ny more i am on the mini pill at the moment which im having a period then 2 weekd later a bleed along with abdomanol pain so i decided to ask to be sterilised but i am now soooooo scared ive never had oeriod pain the mini pill made my periods heavier and painfull and im worried what a sterilisation will do............

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2. V 2 April 2008 at 17:32PM

   Hi, I am 30 years old and i have two children. I had made up my mind that i wouldn't be having anymore children after that age both my kids are from 2 different father's and I wont be getting another from someone else not cool not cool at all. So I had my tubes done 2 months ago and so far everything has been fine. If I happen to meet someone else later in life, I will let them know from the beginning I do not want any children so if they do not have any I am not the right person for them. We as women need to know when to stop, we can not continue to go around having children for men who claim to love us but leaves us in a drop of a dime. Children are becoming more, and more expensive and that also puts a very big strain in us. I do hope that what ever you decide you remember the kids you have now and note the ones you dont. Even if you had to win millons of dollars that should not give you a reason to want more you should want to enjoy it with the children you have now and enjoy the rest of your life. So think about it very carefully and make the right choice.

   GOOD LUCK

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