im a 33 year old woman who has 4 children i had my 1st in 95 my 2nd in 96 my 3rd in 99 and my 4th in 00 after having my 4th i was pushed in to sterilization by an extremly pushy mother and it was the worst thing i have every done in my life i have 4 children by 3 diff fathers and my mother thought she was doing the right thing and at the time maybe she was right in her mind but i have never forgiven her for pushing me into such a life changing operation i am also settled with a awesome guy who loves my children like there are his own but i know deep down he would love hi own and i would love one with him but that isnt possible as the reversal is to expensive and the doctor said te reversal might not work as it has been nearly 7 years i would like to say to all women who are thinking about having it done please please please think about it very very much as it is almost immpossible to change once it is done as for all he women who have had it done and regret it my love and thoughts are with you and i hope that you can get overthe overwhelming thoughts of dispair and always remember where one door closes another one opens somewhere:wink:

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