get 2 of your friends so there are at least 3 of you at a table
cover the eyes and ears of one of your friends. This is the important bit...
Place a tin of coke for example on the table so the other friends can see it.. Then remove the tin of coke
ONLY then take the blindfold and ear muffs off you other friend. and ask where is the tin of coke has gone...You all know it was there because you all saw it except for the friend who was blindfolded...
That friends brain will automatically start searching for the memory of the tin because everyone else remembers it being there...
But the person who had the fit or the person who was blindfolded cant because they never made the memory in the first place...
So alot of the time we think were forgetful when were not we were switched off at the time so never made the memory to start with
So people please be patcient with us and just repeat the info so we do make the memory eventually lol
thank you